I got an email from Nicole several weeks ago. She wanted to know about me. She gave me her cellphone. I called her and we had a friendly talk. After that day we have being texting each other almost daily.
We are making plans. She can visit me in Feb 2013 and I will visit her on March. I have being doing some background checking. Apparently she was engaged on May 2011. A few months after we were dating (Dec 2010). Also she posted on facebook that this year she ended a relationship. It kind of bothers me. I was going trough her facebook and got her instagram account. I found that she posted several pictures in the last 20 weeks. In some pictures she is with a guy. I am thinking that's her ex boyfriend.
One picture that truly bothers me is where they are both together in Chicago. Probably they spent the night together. I can believe some is that stupid to post pictures and saw stupid things that "love forever". I never did that with my ex.
Most of our texting involve flirting. We finally touch the age difference. She seems fine with me being that much older than her. I, as a man, dont care. In fact I feel better. Man always love younger women. I order a gift for her through Amazon. I dont know if it was a good idea.
I do like her but I just feel that she has to much baggage with her. I dont feel comfortable with her past. Something that I have learned is women never forget the boyfriend that they had between 18 and 21. Probably his memory will be there forever.
I am afraid to invest in her and she suddenly goes back with her ex. If I know the story correctly. He cheated on her. Some how she forgave him. She continued the relationship with him after dating me.
My personal opinion is once I date a girl. She should never date another man at all. Long distance relationships are always a waste of time. She has emotional baggage. Boyfriend lurking in the background. I am thinking maybe I am a rebound again.
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